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INPERSON Patient Ambassador Darlene Miloser of Fox Chapel pens her story about breast cancer in an effort to help others. BY JENNIFER BROZAK Before my diagnosis, I was just obsessed with turning 50. Afterward, I just wanted to stay alive. S hortly before her 50th birthday, Fox Chapel resident Darlene Miloser received the heart-breaking news that she had breast cancer. That was in 2008. Five years later, Miloser is in full remission, and is on a mission to share her emotional story. Working with Tate Publishing & Enterprises, Miloser has published her first book, Diary of a Breast Cancer Survivor, as a way of reaching out to other women who are facing the life-threatening disease. “Hearing that diagnosis turns your whole world upside down,” says Miloser, whose boys were only 11 and 15 at the time. She 32 724.942.0940 TO ADVERTISE | Fox Chapel Area turned to her faith to help her through the treatment. “Before my diagnosis, I was just obsessed with turning 50. Afterward, I just wanted to stay alive,” she says. “I dropped to my knees and prayed to God to please let me stay here and raise my children, to be with my husband. I promised that if he let me live, that I would do anything I could to help as many other women as I could get through this.” Having no history of breast cancer in her family, Miloser learned she had the disease after discovering a lump during a self-examination – just three weeks after she had undergone a routine mammogram, which, other than finding evidence of known breast calcifications, had indicated nothing suspicious. Further testing revealed a cancerous tumor and a precancerous mass in one breast, and a precancerous mass in the other. She began chemotherapy and despite the fact that it shrunk the tumors and eliminated any other signs of cancer in her body, she opted for a bilateral mastectomy with subsequent reconstruction. “I didn’t want to take any chances,” she explains. “I didn’t want to go through this again.”