IN Fox Chapel Area Spring 2020 | Page 14

STUDENTS TAKING TIME FOR “ME FIRST” M e First”: They’re two small words, but they’ve had a big impact on the Fox Chapel Area High School student body. This initiative is part of the Peer-to- Peer Empowerment Program sponsored by Crisis Center North, a local nonprofit counseling and resource center that aids victims of domestic violence and their loved ones. The goal of the program is to help students achieve healthy relationships. Participating Western Pennsylvania schools form a team of students who want to develop and lead an initiative that addresses a need in their school or community. The Fox Chapel Area High School Peer-to-Peer Empowerment Program team, with sponsor Lisa Gibson. After evaluating a number of topics, Fox Chapel Area High School students chose the “Me First” theme, which encourages students to take some time for themselves and prioritize their mental health. Teens are under more pressure than ever, balancing a full slate of classes, extracurricular activities, athletics, jobs, and preparing to go to college, junior Xavier Perry says. “To juggle all of that is difficult for most teens to do and be successful at the same time,” he says. “Self-care for teens teaches them that they are important and are worth something.” “Many teens fail to take a break from the stressors of life and do something that they enjoy or will relieve them of whatever may be stressing them out,” echoes junior Samantha Dunlap. “I think we just forget to slow down, take a deep breath, and do something for ourselves.” For the first activity in the “Me First” project, a banner was hung in the high school cafeteria on which students could write ways to take time for themselves. Examples of goals included focusing on something positive every day, keeping in mind that learning comes from failing, getting more sleep, and drinking more water. A student posts a self-care goal to the “Me First” banner showing how she will take better care of herself in 2020. Students were eager to contribute their ideas, says sophomore Danielle Horne. “A lot of people liked the wall that we created and said it was a really cool idea,” she says. “And they liked how there were not many boundaries on what they could write.” The “Me First” project will continue through the rest of the school year with a series of self-improvement articles in Fox Tales Quarterly, a publication written and designed by high school students, says teacher Lisa Gibson, sponsor of the Peer-to-Peer Empowerment Program team. Students also hope to begin a mentoring program in the future, she says. “I am so proud of the students’ effort,” Mrs. Gibson says. “It took a lot of courage for them to talk to their peers about the importance of self-care, and they did so with ease and enthusiasm. Rather than merely viewing this as a one-time event, they are already discussing ways to expand the program in upcoming years.” Teacher Lisa Gibson talks with students from the Peer-to-Peer Empowerment Program team about ways to inspire their peers to take more time for themselves. 12 FOX CHAPEL AREA In addition to Xavier, Samantha, and Danielle, the Peer-to- Peer Empowerment Program team is composed of senior Ethan Alfery; juniors Suparna Agrawal, Alex Blaylock, Jake Mulhern, Abigail Rickin-Marks, and Hayden Rutkowski; and sophomore Beata Turnquist.