IJGA Newsletter: The Oaks December 2019 | Page 12

THE SIT-DOWN WITH LEE-ANNE MISSELDINE What’s the most important thing we can give to juniors to prepare them for college golf? The most common challenge with the college process is unrealistic expectations. PSA’s (prospective student athletes) - or in many cases their parents - have aspirations to attend the top golf universities without an understanding of the golf and academic requirements for admission. For example, Stanford University, a favorite for Asian families, requires a near perfect SAT score and very competitive golf scores. Holding out hope for recruitment to Stanford would be a foolish ambition if a player was not in that range academically or athletically. Being very objective in the college process is a critical success factor because it allows for accurate and realistic planning and execution. At IJGA each student builds a list of “safe, target and reach” schools, creating viable and workable options, but allowing for growth and improvement. 12 however I do work with a number of our girls in a mentoring capacity to help them build their own internal strength and resourcefulness. Many teenage girls go through a difficult time with relationships as they are finding their identity and sense of self. This can be even harder when they are so far from home and away from the safety and security of their family and friends. Being able to work through the challenges in a caring and empathetic environment that allows girls to express their feelings and emotions is a very important aspect of nurturing positive change. How does golf create opportunities for junior athletes? The USA is unique in that the universities have organized sports for athletes, outside of the academic programs. A student can study business or engineering but also be a student-athlete. NCAA Division I and II, NAIA and NJCAA offer athletic scholarships and student-athletes can often receive academic scholarships as well. Golf provides the opportunity for students to get an education and improve their game while competition on a college team. When juniors don’t have reasonable goals for college based on realistic golf and athletic performance, they become frustrated and disappointed in the process. Even worse, they miss out on opportunities, hoping to get better offers down the road. Every challenge is an opportunity. How do you teach your student-athletes to embrace them? Mindset is the greatest predictor of success or failure. There is no doubt that athletic ability and natural talent are important factors in sport, but the difference with top performers and everyone else is mental acuity and toughness. A growth mindset embraces challenges as an opportunity to learn and does not see failure as fatal, but as a step in the learning process. How do you empower young women to take on leadership roles and be stewards for positive change? Leadership and character development are a core program at IJGA for both men and women. At this time, we don’t have any specific curriculum to empower women specifically, At IJGA we teach our student-athletes how to develop a growth mindset and give them individualized plans to build mental skills such as resilience and grit. Techniques include visualization, goal setting, stress management, emotional regulation, routines and positive self- talk, to name a few.