Ihsaan Magazine May 2020 Issue - Living your best Life | страница 25

Ramadan in 2020 count if it is to be our last? How do we maximise these last ten days and night? The following are some points for us to consider. Know Ramadan Ramadan brings with it, an abundance of blessings, virtues and opportunities. We must remind ourselves of these – the special blessings of Ramadan – the multiplied rewards, the forgiveness of sins, the acceptance of dua, and so many others. Refreshing our knowledge of the amazing opportunity that is Ramadan will fuel our desire to want to succeed in this blessed month. Ramadan 2019 Self Audit It is commonly said that the definition of insanity is doing the same thing repeatedly and yet expecting a different result. Therefore, if we are to embark upon our last Ramadan that we will ever see, then we must identify areas in which we can improve on from previous Ramadans. This means looking back at our last Ramadan and identifying aspects which worked for us. Maybe we found an appropriate time to read Qur’an, perhaps iftar at home was more meaningful, maybe we found efficient means of giving charity. Similarly, we have to identify areas that were obstacles for us during the month and see how we can overcome these obstacles in this, our possible last Ramadan. This simple exercise will equip us with an improved approach to the best time of the year. The Snowball Effect Think of a snowball rolling down a hill. It starts as a baby snowball and quickly gains size and momentum. By the time it reaches lower down the hill, it is massive and has tremendous potential. Let us face it – we all enter Ramadan being spiritually flabby. It’s ok to admit that. Let’s try to pick up momentum by doing more, establishing regularity and consistency, so that in these last ten days and nights, these small habits would have grown into a fixed routine. These beneficial acts will become easy, natural and fluent in our days and nights and will reap tremendous benefit for us, insha Allah! Setting Goals If we do not know where we are going, any road will take us there. This is a statement I learnt from one of my teachers and has always remained with me. If we do not have a plan for achieving something, then we will likely never achieve that thing. Similarly, if this may be our last Ramadan, then we should take a moment and really think of what we want to achieve. If we neglect to do this, we may end the month feeling satisfied with whatever we did, never knowing that we could have done more. The goal for Ramadan is defined for us in Surah al Baqarah (2:183) – Taqwaa. How do we achieve this Taqwa, though, is what I am referring to. So all of our goals should lead back to the attainment of Taqwa, and they should be specific, measurable and realistic. Some examples are: Reading the entire Qur’an (or some specified amount), praying all my prayer on time, watching a video series on Tafseer, etc. These specific, tangible goals can help us to focus and work harder towards achieving the overall goal of Taqwa. The next three points revolve around an overall reminder for us all. You see, in Ramadan, we strive to do as many acts of worship that we can do. We put in tremendous effort into the number of units of prayer we perform, the number of pages of Qur’an we recite, the number of times we make dhikr, etc. However, equally as important to us should be quality of the worship we perform and not just the quantity that we focus on by default. Therefore, the following three points are some recommendations to help us to improve the overall quality of three actions, which we perform frequently in Ramadan – Salaah (prayer), Reading Qur’an and Dua (Supplication). High-Quality Prayer Allah SWT says in Surah Hajj, “O you who have believed! Bow down, and prostrate yourselves, and worship your Lord and do good that you may be successful.” (22:77). Notice that the success isn’t guaranteed, demonstrated by