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Race, Class and Gender Neither race nor sex: Just humanity Verónica Vega Writer Havana Cuba A video in YouTube shows a white Brazilian girl crying before the camera held by her mother. When she was asked about the cause of her grief, she says she wants to "be black, because so she would be more beautiful." Apart from well-meaning or captious comments, it’s obvious the innocence with which the eyes of a child can perceive the world. I remember my infant son —devoid of attention and affection of his biological father— telling me once he wanted that a friend of mine would be his father. That friend is black. Some people always tell me that I cannot fully understand racism because I am not black, and I cannot feel the pain suffered by gays because I am heterosexual. My simple answer is that I am a female and have personally been affected by machismo. That experience led me to observe that this sad phenomenon occurs because of women who bear the burden and perpetuate the machos’ attitudes as a conjugal partner. They allow that men to use them and to exhibited them as sexual item, and they also let their sons being educated under such rules. I also appreciate in many homosexual people certain extremism that does not indicate the will to be integrated into society, but rather to be always separate, in a hypersensitive spotlight, because of the suffering in the past and in the present, as if they could not accept more than eternal claim or need a planet just for them. This does not help to find ourselves again in our basic humanity, which arises before a common tragedy without any prerogative for any sex, race or even species. "Just say man and all the rights are already said," stated the so-called "greatest of all Cubans," although their views on racism have been seriously questioned in current analysis. Maybe José Martí, lacking of the firsthand experience about being discriminated because of race, simplified in such apothegm a very complex problem that has brought and still brings too much suffering to many people. However, the deep truth, as revealed by the Brazilian girl in the video, is overwhelmingly simple. She called for being black, and cries with a grief that overwhelms us, especially because we know that even her mother cannot change the color of her skin to please her, although she tries to comfort her by assuring she will allow her to be painted in black. Herein the audiovisual material became a double neuralgic point: it mocks a canon rooted in almost the entire planet for centuries and demonstrates the fragile relativity of the values established through a tradition fraught with prejudice, violence and abuse, with a scale of values where the first place is always economic power and, therefore, political power (Or vice versa?). 22