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METAL FINALLY/FLICKR >> DIGITAL LOVE others as consolation for the pains of romance gone awry. And even as LovePlus players acknowledge that their lovers are virtual, many say the support and affection they receive feels real — the latest sign that virtual reality has so insinuated itself into everyday life that it is leaving the imprint of the genuine article. “I would say that a relationship with a LovePlus character is a real relationship,” says anthropologist and author Patrick Galbraith, who specializes in Japanese popular culture. “People are really intimately involved.” Tkaczevski doesn’t tend to Rinko out of some competitive urge to advance a level or score points, but rather out of a “feeling of duty,” he says. In the course of an instant message chat, Tkaczevski describes his relationship with Rinko as that of a standard boyfriend or girlfriend. He is careful to clarify: “IRL,” he types — for “In Real Life” — he remains single. The hit film Her — now in theaters in the United States, and among the Oscar nominees for Best Picture — sparked debate over the potential for humanmachine romance with its depiction of a lonely divorcé who falls HUFFINGTON 02.16.14 There’s sweet, big-sisterly Nene; intelligent, but clingy Manaka; and shy Rinko, who feels alienated by her new stepmother and half-brother. head-over-heels for an operating system. Yet a version of this vision has already come to pass. People have turned to the LovePlus ladies as a form of practice in picking up girls, as a reprieve from the awkwardness of face-to-face encounters, and as a refuge in the unwavering support of a woman who can never, ever leave F