Huffington Magazine Issue 88 | Page 29

KRISTIAN SEKULIC/GETTY IMAGES Voices coffee, and before you’ve opened the door the kids have swarmed, giving homework excuses, asking you to settle arguments. Their world consumes you, and in their presence you lose track of your own unraveled life. But they haven’t forgotten the month of subs they muddled through in your absence, or why you were gone in the first place. “I have an uncle,” Jessica says. There are many plans for you involving uncles. “My mom thinks you’d like this friend of my dad’s,” Peter confides. “When do you think you’ll get remarried?” ELIZABETH SCARBORO Angelica asks. You shrug. You want to say never, or I’m so tired I can’t see straight. “It’s OK,” Jorge says, patting your shoulder. “It can take a long time.” You, on the other hand, imagine wandering through years and countries by yourself. The ground underneath your feet no longer feels solid. The possibilities are endless, and none of them inter