Huffington Magazine Issue 74 | Page 46

HUFFINGTON 11.10.13 STONEWALLED customers, particularly those from around Shannon, would park down the road so passersby or police wouldn’t see their cars in the lot. But the bar never brought in much money, and in 1998 Newton decided to sell. She and her partner moved from Tupelo to Memphis, where Newton worked in marketing. Over the years, they ran a variety of businesses in Tennessee, including two other bars and a company that contracts with realtors to prepare houses for sale. Newton assumed her time in Shannon was behind her. But in 2010, when the owners of Rumors decided it was time to sell, too, they called Newton and asked her if she would consider buying the bar back. At first she said no. She liked living in Memphis. She changed her mind only after hearing from dozens of former customers and old friends. “I said, ‘Okay, if you really want it and you’re going to come out and spend money, we’ll do it,”’ she recalled. She leased the building and poured thousands of dollars from her savings account into fixing it up, clearing the nearby lots that were filled with trash and old tires, replacing the deteriorating wood with new siding and getting the building up to code. To save money, she did most of the work herself. Newton is tall, with spiky white hair. She wears cowboy boots and bolo ties. She’s both confident and mild-mannered. “If I could just meet with every person in town and talk to them, I know they’d change their minds,” she said. “There are a lot of LGBT people out there who have not yet received the benefits of all the headlines we see in the papers every day, and we’re looking to find those people and make sure they do.” The day after the lawsuit was filed, she held a party at a restaurant in Tupelo for old customers and friends. Her partner, a blonde in her 50s who asked not to be named, drove in from Memphis, where the two women still live. Newton made the rounds, reminiscing with old customers and handing out blue and melon-colored cocktails and bottles of beer. Someone had ordered plates of fried pickles with ranch dressing