folk they lived with. (Some of
my best parent conferences were
held in the produce isle at the
grocery store). Many may consider my actions extreme. I called
it “preparation for what might lie
ahead.” Teaching and learning is
often hindered by the details not
found in school records. There is
an African proverb that states:
“The best time to make a friend
is when you don’t need one.” I
was being proactive. It is advice I
always give to others.
The more you know about a
person, the easier it is to develop an alliance (if that is your
intention). Positive, healthy relationships rely on clear communication. Without it, misunderstandings occur and intentions
are misinterpreted. I wanted an
open pathway to learning, so I was
open to their questions, as well.
We have now entered an age
where nothing is private and
secrets are hard to keep. Your
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RITA F.
PIERSON
Voices
TEACHING
IN DARKNESS
AND LIGHT
For every student that finally
‘got it,’ for every rookie teacher
that said, ‘you inspired me to stay,’
I get the raise that never quite
made it to my paycheck.”
“friends” are counted by simply
clicking a button. Face to face interactions are seen by many as
unnecessary and time-consuming.
Of course, we can do just about
anything online, including teaching and learning. But I guess I am
just old school. I want to look into
your eyes when the answer finally
dawns on you. I want to hear that
inflection in your voice when you
are angry with me. I want to see
the smile on your f X