Huffington Magazine Issue 17 | Page 37

HUFFINGTON 10.07.12 MIRACLE BABIES get pregnant,” said Alice Domar, an assistant professor of obstetrics, gynecology and reproductive biology at Harvard Medical School and executive director of the Domar Center for Mind/Body Health. “And my patients look at me and say, ‘You’ve gotta be kidding me. I’ve had 18 cycles of IVF.’ And then they get pregnant.” Though no expert has ever offered her a definitive explanation, Michelle believes her first pregnancy somehow healed her body. “With my boy, it’s like I had one golden egg in there. I don’t know how to explain it,” she said. “But I don’t think it would have happened without my daughter. It’s like she taught my body what to do.” Scientific theories do support Michelle’s hunch, particularly for women with certain conditions. For example, about 50 percent of women with endometriosis, which causes the tissue that normally lines the uterus to grow elsewhere, have problems getting pregnant. Whether induced or natural, pregnancy “suppresses” the condition, Domar explained. “For somebody who has a history of endometriosis, if she manages to get pregnant, those nine months of pregnancy are very healing to her IVF IS A GRUELING, LOGISTICALLY CHALLENGING PROCESS, NOT A QUICK FIX. pelvis,” she said. “It would make more sense that she would be able to get pregnant after.” An underweight woman faces a similar prospect, as long as her weight is a reason for ovulation problems. If she manages to get pregnant, even a window of several months to lose the baby weight may be long enough for her to become pregnant naturally with a second child. AN INEXACT SCIENCE An even simpler explanation is that some women are rushing into assisted reproductive technology and that given more time, they might have gotten pregnant on their own. Much about infertility and its roots is still a mystery, and to have a baby, the complex