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BY KATY
HALL
What’s the polite way to sext someone? I’m
afraid that if I just sent him a full-frontal
shot without warning it might be, well, an
unpleasant surprise rather than a pleasant
surprise. But then you don’t exactly want to
ask for permission since that spoils the moment. Thoughts?
— Clothed in Chelsea
Q
If someone has you and your body on his mind, a
nude sext should be a very pleasant surprise. But if
you’re still unsure where the relationship stands,
it’s probably not the best idea to test it with a compromising photo that could be distributed to your
guy’s friends or worse. Send him a clothed but flirty pic of you getting into bed and see what happens. If the response is less than
enthusiastic, he may not be into you—and a surprise has nothing to
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do with it. Better to find
this out now—before he
has an archive of your
topless self-portraits on
his hard drive.
As any Seinfeld fan
can tell you, there is
“good naked” and “bad
naked,” even for our loved
ones. Male full-frontal
pics, nude photos shot
into a mirror with an
iPhon