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TABLE OF CONTENTS 1 INTRODUCTION...............................................................316 3 TECHNIQUES FOR COACHING ..............................317 3.1. ACTIVE LISTENING ...................................................317 3.2. ASKING QUESTIONS ..................................................330 3.3 HERON’S 6 CATEGORIES OF INTERVENTION ....360 3.4 RESPONSIVENESS .......................................................362 3.5 GIVING FEEDBACK .....................................................364 3.6 FRAMING - REFRAMING ...........................................372 3.7 REALITY CHECK .........................................................383 3.8 SCALING TECHNIQUES.............................................385 3.9 EXTERNALISING OF PROBLEMS ...........................389 3.10 CREATING RAPPORT ...............................................393 3.11 COLLABORATION BUILDING ................................402 3.12 SAYING “NO”...............................................................422 3.13 I-MESSAGES ................................................................432 3.14 ADVISING .....................................................................440 3.15 CREATIVE THINKING ..............................................449 3.16 TURNING PROBLEMS INTO POSSIBILITIES .....491 3.17 SUMMARIZE, EVALUATE AND WRAP UP ...........498 3.18 ENACTING ...................................................................509 3.19 THE MIRACLE QUESTION.......................................525 3.20 SHARING INFORMATION........................................530 3.21 SELF DISCLOSURE ....................................................533 3.22 USING INTUITION......................................................542 3.23 RECOGNISE LIFE PATTERNS.................................550 3.24 BREAKING THE DRAMA TRIANGLE....................604 3.25 VOICE DIALOGUE .....................................................611 3.26 CONFRONTATION .....................................................615 3.27 PROVOCATION...........................................................632 314