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3) When a client is recounting a story vividly and is saying first what she said and then what the other person said, ask her to shift her body position when she shifts roles. 4) If you have used artwork with a client, ask him to hold the work and speak from one of the elements of the drawing. You can interview him as the drawing. 5) When a client is uncertain about the future, ask her to imagine that there is an imaginary clock face on the floor, each of whose numbers represents a month in the future. Let's say it's currently April. Ask the person to stand at 3 (months from April), and tell you what's happening to her in July. 6) Time line: When a client begins to describe a long chain of events, ask him to stand and begin at a spot on the floor and walk forward (or around the perimeter of the space) and stop at specific, important times and tell you what happened on that date. You can use objects in the room, scarves, or labeled pieces of paper to mark off the times. When the exercise is complete ask the client to stand back and see if he can see any patterns; what sense he makes of all the events when considered from this perspective; or if any specific time is more crucial than the others. This may also be done at the beginning of treatment when taking a history from a client. 7) If a client remarks about or is drawn to an object in your office, ask her to reverse roles with the object and interview her in the role of the object. 8) When working with a client whose spontaneity or creativity are blocked, concretize the Canon of Creativity, marking out areas on your floor for Creativity, Spontaneity, the Conserve and the Warming Up Process. Ask the client to walk the Canon focusing on the issue (conserve) in relation to their spontaneity or creativity or where they are in the warming up process. SOCIAL ATOM Make the social atom a regular and routine part of the one-to-one experience. Remember the therapy maxim, "Treat the 519