How to Coach Yourself and Others Popular Models for Coaching | Page 48

1 Negativity About Lack of Action Inviting a sense of responsibility in a negative way by blaming, accusing, attacking or by merely noticing the lack of follow-through non-verbally, but not mentioning it. 0 No Follow-up No mention of what a person has said, no relating it to what the person is doing or is not doing. No follow-up on promises, tasks. 5) Pattern Detection Observing a refrain of activities that suggests a structured approach in a coachee's responses and specifying that structure in terms of an outline, template, or metaphor. 5 Testing and Validating Structure Asking complex meta-questions that unite numerous patterns, Matrix questions that invites systemic thinking, that describes the flow of information and energy through the mind-body system. Presenting the structure back to the coachee and testing its validity with the coachee. 4 Eliciting Unique Structure Asking meta-questions around refrains that seem unique (or idiosyncratic) to the coachee, presenting such to the coachee with little testing of it. 3 Eliciting Formalized Structures/Models Asking meta-questions that seek to flush out formalized structures and models, Meta-Model questions, Meta-Program questions, MetaState Question, SCORE, etc. 2 Simple Meta-Questions Asking some simple meta-questions around repeated themes or refrains. Using some simple models as templates or patterns to understand experience. 48