How to Coach Yourself and Others Popular Models for Coaching | Page 250

Coach U’s Path of Development  Restoration: heal trauma, free of addictions/ compulsions, incompletions ok  Personal Foundation: Standards, needs, boundaries etc.  Adult: internally motivated, money and reserve, responsible for self and life  Attraction: community, network, friends and family  True Values: career/work integrated into life, expresses values, values known and honored  Fulfillment: peaceful, happy, effortlessness  Legacy: created and lived, contribution, vision and purpose clear 9. Converse with the wise part of the coachee. 10. Recognize b.s. immediately. 11. Speak the truth as it occurs; trust your Self. CONTEXT FOR LASER COACHING • 4 L’s - Listen, Love, EnLighten, Lead • New 123 Coach - Listen, Evoke, Clarify, Discuss, Support • NEW MODEL FOR LASER COACHING TODAY: T I DA L - Touch, Intrude, Design, Align, Lead Laser Coaching is about the first two steps: Touching and Intruding Traditional Coaching can mistakenly be like classic “Scientific Problem Solving”: Situation, Brainstorm, Alternatives, Choose One, Implementation, Follow Up Laser Coaching can mistakenly be thought of as doing all that, but faster or cleaner. 252