How to Coach Yourself and Others Popular Models for Coaching | Page 201

The Miracle Question is typical of this process, 'Let us assume that a miracle has happened and that your problem has been solved. What will you then...?' Avoiding questions about the details of the problem offers the following advantages: • Coaching requires less time. • Coachees find it easier to work out appropriate solutions. The greater the detail and the more precisely coachees speak of past and future solutions, the more choices they realize are available to them. The coach can help to build the coachees solution awareness in such a way that it is solid enough for everyday use. • Coachees' confidence in trying out solutions is increased. The more their resources and abilities are discussed, the easier the situation appears, and the more motivated coachees are to put their solutions into practice. After all, words create reality. • Moreover , solution-oriented awareness helps coachees increasingly to see themselves – and to behave – as experts. If the person who is searching can find the solution themselves, the coach only needs to help them identify options, goals, resources, and solutions. 203