How to Coach Yourself and Others Popular Models for Coaching | Page 20

1.2 THE COACHING STYLE In Personal Coaching, the point of gravity is always the coachee. Personal Coaching is mainly facilitating: The coach does not offer advice, ready-made answers or solutions, but asks questions aimed at encouraging the coachees to think for themselves and find their own answers, based on their own values, preferences and unique perspective. During the process, the coach offers a supportive framework based on structure, assistance and feedback, aimed at positively changing the coachee’s behavior, attitudes and convictions. Coaching is not complete until the coachee has successfully developed and implemented at leas t one concrete action plan. Exceptionally, some form of advice may be necessary. The coach will pose the advice as a question, e.g.: “how do you think … would work for you?” 20