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2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. 11. 12. Exceptions to every problem can be created by therapist and coachees, which can be used to build solutions. Change is occuring all the time. Small changing leads to larger changing. Coachees are always cooperating. They are showing us how they think change takes place. As we understand their thinking and act accordingly, cooperation is inevitable. People have all they need to solve their problems. Meaning and experience are interactionally constructed. Actions and descriptions are circular. The meaning of the message is the response you receive. Therapy is a goal or solution-focused endeavor, with the coachee as expert. Any change in how coachees describe a goal (solution) and/or what they do affects future interactions with all others involved. The members in a treatment group are those who share a goal and state their desire to do something about making it happen. Three stages in reaching solutions In the first stage, coachees and coach discuss the desired future and the changes that would be involved in reaching them. This goal definition phase is similar to other coaching approaches. However, particular attention is focused on the moment when the goal is reached. The coachee describes their vision of the future, in the greatest possible detail. In contrast, no information is gathered about the problem. 200