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Stage Two – Relation Mapping In the coachee’s story, the coach attempts to identify his or her coachee’s aspirations, values, hopes and dreams, which give them a sense of purposes that is more consistent with their desirable self-identity. However, the evidence that appeared in the story told might very often be in thin traces. Borrowed from the anthropological theory of Geertz (1973) Michael White (1997) spoke about „thin description‟ as in contrast to the foreground dominant storyline („thick description‟). The coach needs to identify any „unique outcomes‟ that might have been neglected by the coachee, and yet these neglected events and their unique outcomes may help the coach and coachee to co-construct the alternative story lines. The coachee may give many examples of failure (thick description) to support their negative story line. The coach may ask the coachee to think about any exceptions in their experience that constitute a successful outcome (counterplot). This counterplot provides „a poi