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1. Investigate why the problem remains present in coachee: isolate the problem from the coachee and locate histories when the problem was not dominating. (= “sparkling moments”). 1. Use these sparkling moments as the basis for the re-writing of histories. The Richard Stelter & Ho Law five-step procedure: Stage One – Description The coach invites the coachees to tell a story about life or work domain (depending on the topic of the coaching session, e.g. their business/work issues, relationships or work/life balance, etc). The story may consist of many themes or plots. As the coach listens to the coachee’s story, the coach tries to identify any „internalised problem‟ that might have affected the coachee’s sense of self and identity. The coach encourages the coachee to externalise the problem by for example, giving it a name. 152