How to Coach Yourself and Others How to Influence, Persuade and Motivate | Page 9

Techniques To Increase Your Influencing Skills.............171 1. THE POWER OF EXTERNALISATION ..................................171 2. DON’T WAFFLE ................................................................172 3. PERCEPTION IS KEY..........................................................172 4. LOOKING FOR THE HIDDEN OPPORTUNITIES ....................172 ROBERT CIALDINI: The Rules of Persuasion.............174 TABLE OF CONTENTS ...........................................................174 INTRODUCTION ....................................................................176 THE FIVE P’S OF SUCCESS ...................................................176 CHAPTER 1 THE POWER OF PERSUASION ............................178 CHAPTER 2 THE TWELVE RULES OF PERSUASION ...............190 CHAPTER 3 THE RULE OF DISSONANCE ..............................194 CHAPTER 3 THE RULE OF DISSONANCE ..............................194 CHAPTER 4 THE RULE OF OBLIGATION ................................212 CHAPTER 5 THE RULE OF CONNECTIVITY ............................221 CHAPTER 6 THE RULE OF SOCIAL VALIDATION ...................242 CHAPTER 7 THE RULE OF SCARCITY ....................................256 CHAPTER 8 THE RULE OF VERBAL PACKAGING...................269 CHAPTER 9 THE RULE OF CONTRAST...................................293 CHAPTER 10 THE RULE OF EXPECTATIONS ..........................309 CHAPTER 11 THE RULE OF INVOLVEMENT ..........................325 CHAPTER 12 THE RULE OF ESTEEM .....................................353 CHAPTER 13 THE RULE OF ASSOCIATION ............................367 CHAPTER 14 THE RULE OF BALANCE ..................................382 CHAPTER 15 YOUR PERSUASION CHECKLIST ......................395 10