How to Coach Yourself and Others How to Influence, Persuade and Motivate | Page 56

In order to encode a message properly, you have to think about what the other person will need in order to understand, or decode, the message. Are you sharing all the information that is necessary to get the full picture? Have you made assumptions that may not be correct? Are you using the best form of sending it in order to ensure the best chance of the message being properly received? Are there cultural, environmental, or language differences between you and the other party that could cause miscommunication? Of course, to encode a message properly, you have to know who your audience is. You need to have an understanding of what they know and what they need to know in order to send a complete message. You need to use language they will understand and a context that is familiar. One simple example of how you can do this is being sure to spell out acronyms. We sometimes forget that not everyone is familiar with the acronyms that we may use on a regular basis. Attention to small details like this can establish the rapport that will lead to persuasion and influence. 2.2.4 Channel The channel is the method or methods that you use to convey your message. The type of message you have will help to determine the channel that you should use. Channels includ e face-to-face conversations, telephone calls or videoconferences, and written communication like emails and memos. Each channel has its advantages and disadvantages, but it is possible to establish rapport with the other person by using any of these channels. However, since communication is mostly a non-verbal information exchange, you are able to employ more techniques to influence and persuade another person if you do it in a face-to-face meeting. That way you have all of your communication methods available to you - words, body language, tone of voice, and more. 56