How to Coach Yourself and Others How to Influence, Persuade and Motivate | Seite 478

 “A leader can give up anything – except final responsibility.”  In a study of self-made millionaires, it was found that all have one thing in common – they work very hard.  If you want to succeed, be willing to put the organization ahead of your agenda.  “Stress comes from doing less than you can.”  Excellence is a great motivator. People who desire excellence – and work hard to achieve it – are almost always responsible.  **The ultimate quality of a responsible person is the ability to finish.  Are You On Target When It Comes To Responsibility? “When an archer misses the mark he turns and looks for the fault within himself. Failure to hit the bull’s-eye is never the fault of the target. To improve your aim, improve yourself.” - Gilbert Arland  If you have trouble achieving excellence, maybe you’ve lowered your standards.  “ Success on any major scale requires you to accept responsibility. . .  In the final analysis, the one quality that all successful people have is the ability to take on responsibility.” Michael Korda, Editor-in-chief of Simon & Schuster Security: “No man will make a great leader who wants to do it all himself or get all the credit for doing it.” Competence Never Compensates For Insecurity  What great banner would have been fought and won under the banner, ‘I stand for consensus’?  No one can live on a level inconsistent with the way he sees himself. You may have observed that in people. If someone sees himself as a loser, he finds a way to lose. Anytime his success surpasses his security, the result is self-destruction. That’s not only true for followers, but it’s also true for leaders.  An insecure leader hoards power.  “Nothing is a greater impediment to being on good terms with others than being ill at ease with yourself.”  “No man will make a great leader who wants to do it all himself or get all the credit for doing it.” Andrew Carnegie, Industrialist 478