How to Coach Yourself and Others How to Influence, Persuade and Motivate | Page 155
Techniques That Make You Powerful,
Persuasive and Influential
Author AJ Kumar
Power. Persuasion. Influence. These are things that we all lust over day in
and day out. It is part of human nature to want to be in control (hence the
reason we fear death and public speaking, the outcomes are unsure and
hence, we are frightened of them.) This will teach you five of the most
EFFECTIVE to be powerfully influential and gain control, whether it is in
your business dealings or when you are out and about trying to gain
access to that really exclusive club.
Technique #1: The “Because” Technique
We have all met people who have this unique ability that they can simply
say something and you will just seem to agree with it. They just have a
way with words and we find ourselves wanting to go along with whatever
they say. Well check this out: A study was done where they had a young
lady approach people waiting at the copy machine and she said this:
“Excuse, may I cut in front, I am in a rush.”
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