How to Coach Yourself and Others From Dependency to Inter Dependency | Page 4
THE PRODUCT / PRODUCTION CAPICITY BALANCE ( P/PC BALANCE)
Effectiveness is a function of the balance between 2 things:
P: what is produced (the golden eggs) and PC: the
producing asset or capacity to produce (the goose)
If P is all you are interested in and you neglect to maintain
the PC, that is: to communicate, train, relate, listen, affirm,
motivate, stimulate, show interest, show respect… Then the
goose will get sick; and get sicker day by day and soon will
start producing less golden eggs until she eventually will
stop producing any golden eggs at all.
I. FROM DEPENDENCE TO INDEPENCE
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1. Be proactive
We are NOT conditioned to respond in a particular way to a particular stimulus.
Our environment is NOT responsible for our situation, neither is the upbringing we got from our
parents, neither even our DNA or genes, because between stimulus and response, man has
the freedom to choose.
Proactive people doe not blame circumstances, conditions or condition