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we have the right and will power to choose our responses. We
can choose peace or we can choose conflict.
15 Tips for Dealing with Difficult People
While I’ve had a lot of practice dealing with negativity, it is
something I find myself having to actively work on. When I’m
caught off guard and end up resorting to a defensive position, the
result rarely turns out well.
The point is, we are humans after all, and we have emotions and
egos. However, by keeping our egos in-check and inserting
emotional intelligence, we’ll not only be doing a favor for our
health and mental space, but we’ll also have intercepted a
situation that would have gone bad, unnecessarily.
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Here are some tips for dealing with a difficult person or negative
message:
1. Forgive
What would the Dali Lama do if he was in the situation? He
would most likely forgive. Remember that at our very core, we
are good, but our judgment becomes clouded and we may say
hurtful things. Ask yourself, “What is it about this situation or
person that I can seek to understand and forgive?“
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