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expanded focus and a continuance of the therapeutic conversation. Whenever breakthroughs occur in this
manner, it means that situational issues, family stories, family problems, and family secrets become acceptable
topics. This increases the possibility of bringing about therapeutic conversations.
17. FRAMING QUESTIONS
Questions asked can elicit information about strengths, abilities, and resources. Perceptions of problems then
change significantly in this context.
18. DEFRAMING QUESTIONS
Deframing effectively challenges the existence—or at least the power—of the problem (O’Hanlon & WeinerDavis, 1989, pp. 52–53). By introducing uncertainty and doub