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D. Normal family development.........................................................................................................191 E. The development of behaviour disorders .....................................................................................191 F. Goals of therapy............................................................................................................................191 G. Techniques — join, map, transform structure..............................................................................191 1. Joining and accommodating, then taking a position of leadership ...........................................191 2. Enactment for understanding and change .................................................................................191 3. Working with interaction and mapping the underlying structure .............................................191 4. Diagnosing ................................................................................................................................191 5. Highlighting and modifying interpersonal interactions is essential ..........................................191 6. Boundary making and boundary strengthening ........................................................................192 7. Unbalancing may be necessary .................................................................................................192 8. Challenging the family’s assumptions may be necessary .........................................................192 9. Therapists must create techniques to fit each unique family ....................................................192 17