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Normal Family Development
To Bowen, all families lie along a continuum. While you might try to classify families as falling into
discreet groups, there really are no "types" of families, and most families of one type could become a family
of another type if their circumstances changed. In many ways, Bowen was among the first of the culturally
sensitive family therapists.
Bowen believed that optimal family development occurs when family members are differentiated, feel little
anxiety regarding the family, and maintain a rewarding and healthy emotional contact with each other.
Fogarty offers that adjusted families
are balanced in terms of their togetherness and separateness, and can adapt to changes in the
environment
view emotional problems as coming largely from the greater system but as having some
components in the individual member
are connected across generations to extended family
have little emotional fusion and distance
have dyads that can deal with problems between them without pulling others into their difficulties
tolerate and support members who have different values and feelings, and thus can support
differentiation
are aware of influences from outside the family (such as Societal Emotiona