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I had no friends and the other students who were often older than me
mocked me. I have very bad memories of this period.
1993-2000: I did my military service in the Navy. I liked the openair life and the sports a lot. After military service, I found a job as a
clerk in an insurance company. I don’t earn much.. I don’t go out
much, I have few friends and I don’t have much fun.
2.2 Make a table to use this analysis:
Periods
Would you like to relive this period Why?
70 — 75 NO
75 — 87 YES
87 — 93 NO
93-2000 YES IN NAVY AND NO AFTER
Analyze carefully the answers to these questions and look for the
true reason. In the periods that you do not like, carefully isolate the
past experiences and feelings which were particularly unpleasant.
Above all, don’t hide anything. As with a psy, recall the shameful
events. Tell the truth and the truth will free you. Make a list of these
events and prepare you to neutralize them.
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