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1.3 Relaxation techniques You need to learn how to relax because relaxation is the first step of many process in mental imagery and visioning. We shall give you here our personal method that we experience everyday. Its main advantage is to be easy to use with fast results. Your image resource is the first thing that you need when you are going to relax. Then you have to choose a quiet place for example your bedroom. Make sure there is no noise to interrupt your relaxation. Remain in half-darkness. Lie down if you are in your bedroom or sit in a position that makes it easy to relax if you are in an office. When you are in this situation begin to relax: FIRST SEQUENCE Close your eyes. Breathe as slowly and as regularly as possible. Say the formula: I am perfectly calm Imagine your image resource as we have defined it before: For example, a river that flows in the countryside. Mentally develop this image: Look at this image from all sides and try to relive your feelings. It must occupy your whole mind so as not to leave any room for other sensations or ideas. SECOND SEQUENCE. Say the following phrases with your inner voice: My left arm is heavy, my two arms are heavy, my legs are heavy, my entire body is heavy. You should have a vision of your body sinking, disappearing. The aim of this exercise is to make all bodily sensations fade away as much as possible. 65