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Personal Empowerment The Dominion of Deborah by Betty Parker I just love stories about women of power. And I especially love those stories when they are highlighted in the most powerful book in the world—the Holy Bible. We’ve all heard Deborah’s story at some point if we are regular church goers, but I don’t think she’s admired and spoken about in church as much as she should be to encourage women to emulate her. In a world where there are so few virtuous women that get the spotlight, we have to go in search of them. Fortunately, we don’t have to hunt them down on the internet or through social media. There is one we can get energized by if we only open the Good Book. Even strong and courageous women alive today should be reminded of Deborah’s domination over fear and indecisiveness as found in the book of Judges. Let’s take a look. In the fourth chapter we meet her. She is a prophetess and the current leader of Israel. As usual, Israel was in trouble with God and had been handed over to their enemies. They were suffering greatly as they had so many times before because of their disobedience. And just as predictably, they cried out to God for help. In this particular instance, God sent a woman to rescue them. Deborah called on Barak, a military leader with a powerful army, to wage war on Israel’s enemy, the Canaanites. When she directed Barak on what to do, he said, “If you 28  HimPower May 2016 go with me, I will go; but if you don’t go with me, I won’t go.” What kind of leader was Deborah that a man with military might would not go into battle without her even though he had been assured victory by God? The Bible tells us that Deborah settled disputes between the people of Israel. She was the only female judge to lead Israel; and as a leader, she must have shown herself to be decisive, fair, trustworthy, and courageous. How else could she have commanded such faith in her by the people? Deborah was an influential leader—the most powerful kind of leader. You might ask: Aren’t all leaders influential? No! There are people in leadership positions who are weak and struggle with getting people to do what they ask. They have failed to learn how to build influence. Building influence takes a long time because it requires that one builds trust. Trust is something that is gained over time through showing you are a person of your word, you keep confidences, and you know what you’re doing. She proved this as she mediated issues for the people that obviously ended with the majority’s satisfaction. Today, this would be considered “branding”. And the followers she gained would be the equivalent of a popular person on Twitter, Instagram, and Facebook. Great leaders gain followers even when they’re not trying. They look up one day and