HIMPower Magazine HimPower October 2018 | Page 10

what she longs to tell Jesus when she is with him in heaven one day. “Jesus, do you see that wheelchair? You were right when you said that in this world we would have trouble, because that thing was a lot of trouble. But the weaker I was in that thing, the harder I leaned on you. And the harder I leaned on you, the stronger I discovered you to be. It never would have happened had you not given me the bruising of the blessing of that wheelchair.” This leads us to an often hidden and unwanted blessing of suffering. One that at the onset can feel more like a threat than a comfort. The gift of surrender. In our darkest valley, so cold, so damp, so alone- will we lean on him even after we have begged, pleaded and bargained for God to take us out and he has allowed us to remain in the darkness anyway? Will we let him go with us? Or will we pull our hand away from him, in the depth of the blackness, when we really need him more than ever? Regardless 10  HimPower September 2018 of how unbearable those moments may feel, he is the only one who knows the way out to the light. Because he is the light. We reach out our hand to him, in infantile neediness, trusting that even our most frightening nightmare will ultimately be redeemed by our Father. Yet we cannot find the depth of this reliance until we completely surrender. Even Job came to this broken place after much bitter wrestling with God. He finally relented. I had heard of you by the hearing of the ear, but now my eye sees you; therefore I despise myself, and repent in dust and ashes.” Job 42:5-6 And as we surrender and pick up the cross that each of us has been called to bear, we dare not keep our eyes on our feet as we shuffle down a broken road. No, we lift up our eyes to the hope that lies ahead. Because the road we travel does not end here. Hope is gleaming, oh so brightly, on the horizon. A time will come where we can say in the