We’re never too old to learn,
whether 15 or 50!
next test. That’s why
we have to remember to focus on “ME”
not “YOU”! It’s my test, my life, this is for my
growth, to make me stronger, wiser, better
than before. I can’t pass the test for you, so I
can’t spend my time angry, bitter and blaming
you; that’s a distraction that’s wasting my time
from studying for my next test. Because when
we continue to shine the spotlight on “them”,
we miss the reason the situation or person
happened upon us, we often miss the entire
life lesson…..and we sometimes make the
same mistake again.
And No, you can’t use your brand new
superman eraser to eliminate the mistake, but
you can be ok with it. No one is perfect, so
don’t place blame or constantly beat yourself
up or even the other person! Forgive yourself
(and him/her too!) Those negative emotions
are like chewing gum on your shoe—you
can get stuck, unable to move left or right!
Instead, be thankful for this God given opportunity to improve yourself emotionally, spiritually, financially, physically, and mentally. Think
of it as a brand new clean slate; don’t waste it!
Just like school, life is a class. We go
from one subject (intro to relationships/career
101, etc...) to the next, learning the lessons
we need to live a better life. We get the curriculum, figure it out, make mistakes, do better
the next time then pass the test armed with
the knowledge to help us graduate to the next
level, and the next level and the next. The lessons keep coming, the classes do and can get
easier and each time your life becomes better
because you paid
attention and studied! So sharpen your
pencils, pick up plenty of paper and so you can
see clearly, get yourself some new eye glasses
while you’re at it! You’ll want to make sure you
have everything you need to ace this thing
called life! And you can, so Relax, it’s ok 2 go
back to school. I’m Tre’ Tailor for Relax, it’s ok
2b Single!
About the Author: Tre' Tailor is an award winning Radio and TV personality and Voice Over/
Jingle Artist whose 25 years in broadcasting has
spanned Regional, National, local and syndicated
media outlets. Through her company TailorMade
Productions she’s spearheaded successful marketing campaigns for several companies including
the 4 City Black Expo Tour, The Auntie Karen
Foundation Legends of Concert Series and many
more. Tre' launched Relax, it’s ok 2b Single to
help unmarried people of all ages, races, genders
and religions have the love and life they desire
and deserve by focusing on the three primary
issues that they encounter: Healing, Connection and Communication. Relax hosts seminars,
workshops and networking events and publishes
articles encouraging singles to embrace this great
God given opportunity to strengthen themselves
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