HG Matters Issue 4 | Page 8

3. Be okay with the fact that I am a total bum This was especially hard for me. I withdrew from everything. I got a medical withdrawal from school; I stopped going to church, I stopped making phone calls, and it killed me. I felt like I was worthless. I am committing to being okay with that next time. I am not worthless; I am making a precious human being. 4. Prepare for the worst Going into the next pregnancy, I am hoping to have my house organized and my affairs in order so I can take a break from life. I want to make sure, in the event that I am bed (and toilet) ridden; it will be easy for someone else to step in and take care of Adelaide while Jon is at work. I have some lofty goals, but I think it will really help. I refuse to let fear stop me from having at least one more child. I am scarred, but I am also so much better equipped than last time. What helped you going into your next pregnancy after HG? Join the chat on our support group on Facebook. Link to Ayden Rae Foundation Facebook Support Group Don’t Forget Your Camera Mommy & Daddy! 6 3 4