Healing and Hypnotherapy Volume 8, Issue- 5, 1 November 2023 | Page 19

2 . Caring too much — 

3 . Bad timing — 
 
 If none of the above applies to you , then perhaps the partner lost interest because the timing wasn ’ t right . We have no way of knowing all that is going on in someone ’ s life — maybe the person is already in a relationship , maybe they are still getting over someone , and the list goes on and on . The phrase “ It ’ s not me , it ’ s you ” applies here . You have high confidence , are perfectly happy on your own , and are available for that person to enter your life , but if they aren ’ t in the same place , none of that will matter . 
 

4 . Too much too soon —
 
 Sometimes both people are in a good place , ready to start a relationship , but after a hot and heavy start , the spark fizzles out . What went wrong ? This can happen when a relationship accelerates too fast and has nowhere to go but down . The physical attraction that draws two people
under your control . 


2 . Caring too much — 



 Some people are desperately seeking a relationship . They are unhappy on their own and long for someone to spend their life with . Dating partners quickly pick up on — and are turned off by — this quality . Well-rounded individuals , by contrast , are comfortable on their own ; they don ’ t need a partner to feel whole . 
 

What can you do about it ? If you find yourself in this situa‐ tion , come to terms with the idea of remaining single for the rest of your life . Once you feel comfortable with this notion , you are ready for a healthy partnership . It could be difficult , at first , to accept this possibility , but it will force you to reflect on who you want to become as an individual . Then , when the time is right , that special person will come into your life and add to who you are , not serve to complete you .


3 . Bad timing — 
 
 If none of the above applies to you , then perhaps the partner lost interest because the timing wasn ’ t right . We have no way of knowing all that is going on in someone ’ s life — maybe the person is already in a relationship , maybe they are still getting over someone , and the list goes on and on . The phrase “ It ’ s not me , it ’ s you ” applies here . You have high confidence , are perfectly happy on your own , and are available for that person to enter your life , but if they aren ’ t in the same place , none of that will matter . 
 


What can you do about it ? Be okay with the unexplainable . You can ’ t understand everything ; some things in life are a mystery . Have faith that if the relationship is meant to be , it will work out when the timing is right for both people . In the meantime , get busy doing things for yourself , like eating right , exercising , spending time with family and friends , and being open to receiving all the positive experiences life has in store 


4 . Too much too soon —
 
 Sometimes both people are in a good place , ready to start a relationship , but after a hot and heavy start , the spark fizzles out . What went wrong ? This can happen when a relationship accelerates too fast and has nowhere to go but down . The physical attraction that draws two people