Healing and Hypnotherapy Volume 8, issue-2, 1 August 2023 | Page 27

5 . Avoid blame and self-reflection
Commonly asked questions

5 . Avoid blame and self-reflection

It ’ s common to blame yourself for the relationship ’ s failure or to seek closure from the narcissist . However , narcissists are unlikely to take responsibility for their actions , and seeking closure from them might lead to more pain and disappointment . Instead , focus on your own growth , learning , and rebuilding your selfesteem . Understand that the end of the relationship with a narcissist does not define your worth , and it ’ s essential to show yourself compassion and patience as you heal .
Navigating the aftermath of a narcissistic breakup can be a challenging process , but by implementing these strategies , you can regain control over your life and emotions . Remember that healing takes time , and it ’ s okay to seek support from others . Allow yourself the space to heal , learn from the experience , and move forward with the knowledge that you deserve happiness and respect in all your future relationships .

Commonly asked questions

To continue the discussion of dealing with a breakup with a narcissistic partner , here are some more questions that people consider in this regard . Have a look .
Will a narcissist try to come back ?
Yes , it ’ s common for a narcissist to attempt to come back after a breakup . They might use manipulation , love bombing , or promises of change to regain control over their former partner .
Can breaking up with a narcissist have long-term effects on your mental health ?
Yes , breaking up with a narcissist can have lasting effects on mental health . It may lead to emotional trauma , low self-esteem , trust issues , and difficulty forming new relationships .
Should I confront the narcissist about their behaviour before breaking up ?
You may think about what to say when breaking up with a narcissist but confronting a narcissist about their behaviour before breaking up is generally not recommended . They may not respond rationally and may use manipulation to avoid taking responsibility for their actions .