Adopt the collaborative method to solve problems
The collaborative problem solving method does take some time and practice to perfect but it is well worth the effort . Moms and dads using CPS are often surprised at how this method begins to change the way they themselves problem solve in all areas of their lives . A great resource to find out more about how to implement CPS is found on Dr Stuart Abalon ’ s website
www . thinkkids . org .
Two books on the subject are The Explosive Child by Ross Greene ; a helpful book for parenting “ easily frustrated , chronically inflexible children ,” and Lost at School , another book by Dr . Greene which describes why behaviourally challenged school kids are struggling and ” falling through the cracks .” Both these books are well worth reading if you are parenting a challenging , easily frustrated or explosive child or teen .
About Delphine is a dedicated child and adolescent mental health professional with a strong family support aptitude . She holds a masters degree in child and adolescent mental health and multiple professional development including CPS Tier I & II and cognitive behavioural therapy for children and teens .