To avoid this you need to give him responsibility for his own behaviour , and make him accountable for his own attitude .
So if he flirts outrageously with your best friend you need to really know it ' s his behaviour not a reflection of you . Or does not answer your calls or texts for days its him , not you . Or left you waiting somewhere without any information its him and his behaviour . Stop making excuses for him .
Again attracted to Wrong Guy !! What is important to you ?
Yes go back to your check list and if it is trust , reliability and mutual respect along with love are important to you then check out - does his behaviour generally meet your criteria ?
If by any chance the answer is no , then you need to pay attention as to what is going on and keep a part of yourself detached . In case ??
True love takes time to develop and creeps up slowly when you are least aware . - infatuation and desperation blind you , sometimes even instantly .
If you have low self esteem because of the way you have been conditioned in life then you may have got into the habit of going for and staying with men who treat you badly .
If this is the case then you need to think about what you really ‘ need ,’ not what you think ,’ you want .’ The way to do this is to calm down and see clearly . or , I will suggest immediately , take the help of a hypnotherapist to find the reason as well as , to help you break this pattern . Relationships go wrong because people can ' t see clearly what ' s really going on . With those who are really meant for you . It will grow stronger .
Love and Light
Varshaa Dwivedi - ( C . Ht .)
M . A . English , B . Ed .,
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