Or maybe you ' ve been falling into the trap of - ' I ' m the one who can change him !’ ( Oh boy thats the worst one- and fully taken advantage of ) This is perhaps the biggest relationship trap of them all .
Straight thinking compromised by Infatuation .
Infatuation prevents you from thinking straight . Strong emotion is what makes you pick the wrong guy and stops you from seeing what ' s really going on . You end up feeling hurt and stupid . For next cycle your compelling loneliness or a strong emotional void led you into the same kind of trap again .
Why too much of a “ Nice Guy ” does not feel attractive ?
Then there ' s the guys you know would be faithful , wonderful , partners but they just don ' t work for you . They ' re ' too nice ' and not exciting . But there has to be a middle way ; a guy who is stimulating and good long term partner material .
The reason that the ' nice guy ' may not always be there for you is that , being too nice that hey often do not take initiative which , also indicate lack of courage . Women like brave men because brave mates are , from an evolutionary point of view , better able to survive . And are better able to cope with tricky issues in life once the kids are there . So if you are not attracted to a man who seems too nice to be able to handle things , there may be good reasons for this , but you need to find a balance .
Develop Sensible dating Habits :)
In order to find a man you are attracted to but who is also good for you in terms of long term commitment , and knows how to support you ; you need to first find yourself . Complicated ; yeah … no , in simple terms you need to understand what is it that you really want .
Think hard , 1 . What is important to you ? 2 . What works for you ?
Then keep your eyes open and head balanced , when you start dating so that you can clearly see what is in front of you .
The common mistakes while dating Mr Wrong are :
• Making excuses for him
• Blaming yourself
• Brush aside your uneasiness about things ( don ’ t react but pay attention )
• Relationship feels too much on your shoulder .
• And doing this on repeat .