Healing and Hypnotherapy Volume 4, Issue - 3, 1 September 2019 | Page 7

Let’s take an example to
adult during therapy
he is left/ sent or just
where in he experiences
Now, may be over the
be the part of his
the impact of that trauma
those moments stays
persona
and
issue, self esteem self understand it better. An
recalls an incident where
handed over in a room
abuse/fear or threat.
years it may or may no
conscious memory but
which he underwent in
and is manifested in his
relationships / sexuality
image issues etc.. etc..
All this because that
had locked /imprinted the
emotions which were
which, he felt as a child
and imprinted in his
behavioural pattern mind.
influenced for the rest of his life. child who experienced it
experience. All the
related to that situation
are completely locked
subconscious or his
Thus he is getting
And those patterns keep effecting his current life.
Let’s take another example to see how our child hood imprint effect our belief
system.
A child grows up in a family who strives hard to to give best of the whole
world to the child, even at the cost of denying themselves of the same joy.
The child grows up learning that its OK to deny one self little joys of life and
he operates from the high pedestal of self sacrifice as he has observed from
his parents. ! or if he grows up in a family that provided all in abundance but
there was lack of any intimacy on behalf of family. So this child grows up as
an adult seeking and searching intimacy often at the cost of many things.
Now in both cases we may not see anything wrong or wilful evil on the part of
parents but for the child who went through that experience we will find that he
has deep trauma. The little child felt helpless/anxious / afraid / angry / sad on
the very absence of the parent while he underwent that trauma. On the
surface enquiry we may find the closed room / the darkness/the molester/the
baby sitter as the key reason for that trauma, but on a deeper exploration we
will find that each such incidence will have a strong link to the parent child
dynamics ! Neither of them will know or be aware of it, yet it will impact their
relationship and the social family relationship of that child as an adult!
Likewise the child who grows up with that self sacrifice/ money cringe/ gift vs.
intimacy will grow up to have this behaviour pattern in his adult life too ! End