Healing and Hypnotherapy Volume 3, Issue - 6, 1 December 2018 | Page 31

Yes people are different, Yet ,if we closely see the two situations are similar!
Just like that flower people also come into our lives with their own good and
bad, with their own strength and drawbacks, with their own light and
shadows, with their own angels and demons ! Its we who when in that
euphoria loving and fascinationn of that amazing person fail to see their
imperfections and once we with passage of time notice them we start
questioning out Love, our feelings our perceptions- No! Your love ws not
imperfect, your perception not tainted, your feelings not fooled! It was and is
just as beautiful and as pure, as it was the first time you met!
For Love is never imperfect, its never impure & Yes its always a bliss! SO why
all this pain, loss, longing and emptiness in the name of love!
The answer simply is our ‘perception’ of Love, our expectations and our
desire to own ! Its like saying hey i love you but i love my version of you, And
dare be the person who you are? For I approve only of good in you, For I
accept only the light within you. For I embrace only my version of you!
Today as I stand at the crossroads of life, all I can share, from the life’s
lessons and my own understanding is that - no matters what you have been
through choose Love! Choose Love for it will transform everything around
you. Choosing to love when all seems lost may be the most difficult thing to
practice in real life - yet its the best that you can do for yourself and the
person you love, in that dark night of pain and loss.
For when we choose love, we are humbled, we are accepting, we are feeling,
we are blessed and we are vulnerable! Letting ourselves be vulnerable to
feel, to accept bring the blessings of universe and helps us and guide us - to
see the vulnerability, to see the pain, to see the loss, to see the person we
love from the eyes of love - not from our glasses of perception of our Love!
Its then that we learn to be in the shoes of others and its only then we can be
complete acceptance, and humility to embrace ‘Our Love’ in totality and also
to have the courage to Let it Be ! to Let it bloom ! to Let it Go!
Letting Go! Easier Said than done, is the most beautiful and powerful thing
that love teaches you. For you can only ‘Let Go’ if you have truly loved, its
only when we love completely, in totality of its beauty and bliss that we are