Healing and Hypnotherapy Volume 3, Issue - 6, 1 December 2018 | Page 30

Of Love, Longing and Letting Go
Clients, Therapy, Sessions and protocols, Counselling, talks etc.. We have
talked of it all over the months and years. So Today Let’s Drift a little away
and talk about something, that is ‘essence’ ; is the core of it all. Let’s Talk
about Love!
Why only love? For the topic mention about longing and letting go, well that
too is love!
Love is bliss and love is joy, yet its love that create longing, pain and
emptiness! So is this magical euphoria of Love also the painful gloom of
loneliness and loss? Years of therapy sessions with Clients and my own
journey up the top of euphoric bliss and down the gorges of loss and
loneliness, taught me something totally different. It broke my own perception
of Love. It redefined my self creating notion of loving and belonging! For not
so long ago. I too like most of us and my client used to see and believe that
Love is both joy as well as pain, that Love made us complete and it also
made us empty! But I was wrong!
For Love is and will always be just joy, bliss, euphoria, completeness and all
that make us glow and bloom. And anything thats otherwise can't be Love!
Anything thats painful, hurting, depressing, empty and lonely or eroding our
cores can’t be Love. It can be our perception of Love. A love lost, a love
unappreciated, a love un relinquished etc.. etc.. but, its just our perception for
love in itself is complete. !!
How many times have we seen a flowering fallen in Love with its beauty and
charm - but what if we wanted to pluck it and take it home and own it ! This is
the Love that we see as pain and loss, as a longing! But what if you can just
let it be, and know that its there - lovely, beautiful, blooming and you can
always bask in its glory, water it, nurture it and see it grow.
People always say but, humans are different they are not the flowers of
wilderness, they are your lovers, your partners, your spouses, your children,
your family, your people. - How can you just leave them there and go away!
you cant just forget them or move out of them.