Healing and Hypnotherapy Volume 3, Issue - 6, 1 December 2018 | Page 2

Wednesday, 28 November 2018 कमेर्िन्द्रयािण संयम्य य आस्ते मनसा स्मरन् | इिन्द्रयाथार्िन्वमूढात्मा िमथ्याचार: स उच्यते || 6|| यिस्त्विन्द्रयािण मनसा िनयम्यारभतेऽजुर्न | कमेर्िन्द्रयै : कमर्योगमसक्त: स िविशष्यते || 7|| Those who restrain the external organs of action, while continuing to dwell on sense objects in the mind, certainly delude themselves and are to be called hypocrites. ‘Srimad Bhagvad Geeta 3.6’ But those ‘karm yogis’ who control their knowledge senses with the mind, O Arjun (seeker), and engage the working senses in working without attachment, are certainly special. ‘Srimad Bhagvad Geeta 3.7’ From The Desk LOVE YOURSELF: Sounds Familiar, Yes its a Cliche word in everything. But what do we mean by Love Yourself. Do not we love ourself already?? That perfect relationship we want for ‘Ourself’, That always being there for you attitude with that ——“No matter what”? (Seriously…… !!!!). Don’t we do that to keep OUR Loved ones happy?? And that; ‘He does not understand’ and ‘she does not understand’ our point. ?? So Where do we not love ourselves. And is not it ‘Nobel’ to keep other’s interests in mind and is it not important to take care of others to be a good person. Etc… etc…… I was reading a post in a Facebook group Why does women attract abusive relationship. even when they come from fairly normal childhood and loving atmosphere. That has set me thinking. Yes whats wrong not just with women with anyone who attracts any relationship or puts up with it which is abusive. And by relationship I do not mean just intimate Love relationship. it could be any at home, at office in one’s social arena or anywhere. Self Love unknown and misunderstood. Our convenience at the cost of other’s ‘need’ is not self love.‘Arrogance’ to trample on others in the shadow of ‘self righteousness’ and, that ‘I know it all’ definitely, does not come in that either. People with this behaviour too need self love. Here are three misguided approach to it. Have you ever done any of these things? 1. We spend money on ourself because we "deserve it." 1