Healing and Hypnotherapy Volume 3, Issue - 4, October 2018 | Page 17

CHOOSE LOVE A 19 year old youth entered my clinic, tormented by his addictive behaviours. As he was discussing his problems with me, he suddenly said, “My anger controls my life. I have tried to be abstinent but I relapse due to my anger.” I realized that his anger was a major problem that was affecting every aspect of his life. I decided to explore it further through hypnosis. The client easily entered into a hypnotic trance and I guided him to enter a safe sanctuary where he could have a conversation with his anger. I asked him to give his anger a form and structure and visualize that it is sitting on a bench in front of him in the sanctuary. He saw that his anger had taken the form of a lion. I guided him to ask the purpose this lion served in his life. He got the answer, “It helps me protect others’ rights and my own.” I guided him to ask if there were any drawbacks of this lion. He said, “There is one advantage that I can protect others and myself. But that is the only benefit this lion can give me. It destroys my health, my relationships, my identity and my career. It has more drawbacks than the benefit it gives and I have to pay a huge price for keeping it in my life.”