finally after few hitches he got married to this girl … he attained what he wanted ( small mind ), from last many years their married life is mess both are miserable . Now this guy cribs ‘ I spend so much money just to marry this girl ” funny … Yes , it is , because technically he should be happy cause he got what he wanted , yet he is not happy .
And here is another example not even telling the woman of your dreams that you love her since there were social mores involved , according to which it was a taboo and morally wrong to do so . But the worst part was that the woman felt the same way . And sparks were visible even to everybody , still they chose to remain separate ( small mind ) and after a long period of time really regretted , with their sad lives as to , if only .
Confused …. J so what should be done . Well let ’ s just say a little more balanced approach would have been better , be honest , open and say things , now , let the universe open up everything for you . Control in getting . Or holding someone or something , or control in merely managing image and not going for what is truly yours . Both ways you are not letting the “ bigger Mind ’ work . Sometimes people get confused between do not give up for ‘ action ’ to ‘ people ’. Forgetting other person ’ s will is equally important .
So happiness is all about what is right for our growth and being in knowledge that whatever is happening in our life is for our growth if we can see with open mind . If we are in knowledge then we will be more aware about everything and then we can see clearly that , even if there is some pain that is short term
compare to what it can be , and it gives us long-term gain . And , as they say “ Every disaster is an opportunity in disguise ” Only if we
are open and ready to perceive what is the plan of Big Mind for us .
Neha Sharma . Lucknow , India
Clinical Hypnotherpist Past Life regression Therapist . Life between Lives Therapist
Spiritual Hypnotherapist . Crystal Healer . Art of living Teacher .
Email : nehasharma _ healing @ yahoo . com