Healing and Hypnotherapy Volume 2, Issue - 11, 1 May 2018 | Page 12

to get out of it.) It never comes out of their realization of
mistake.
• They are not the people of their words
• They avoid responsibility as much as they can
• They have very rigid mindset regarding their beliefs e.g. male
female role etc... Even when, they are very politically correct
publicly.
• Your dreams, choices, way of thinking nothing matters. Their
convenience prevails. However, where they want they can be
very cooperative. Point is, it should be their choice.
• Image is everything to them.
List may include more. But if you are at the receiving end of this
behavior you must check your mental state. You may be in deep
depression.
Those who see themselves reflecting even in half of this list must
understand they too have inner issues. And these issues can be
helped. If only they want to, ‘it can be resolved’.
Most of the time it takes a very long time for even Victim to
understand what actually is going on. He/ She starts to do everything
to save their relationship only to realize its not bad times in
relationship it’s actually a bad and toxic relationship. In such cases
victim gets into deep depression. Social pressure and sheer
loneliness of no-body around, to understand them, makes situation
worst.
Following are some of the typical signs of depression that may take
over slowly like a fog rolling in on what was previously a sunny day
and now is becoming darker with each minute.
1– “Now, I can’t get out of bed in the morning. I just don’t have
the same interest in things that I used to.”
2 – “I have body pains and I’m worried that I may have (cancer,
arthritis, diabetes, etc.).”
3 – “I can’t seem to stop overeating and I gained weight.” Or “I
have gone back to drinking, smoking cigarettes or pot, etc.”
4 – “I’m having trouble sleeping at night and I’m exhausted.”
5 – “I cry at the drop of a hat, but mostly I feel numb.” (This
one is very apt, ‘numbness’, unable to feel anything and
delayed reaction comes in form of tears.)