Healing and Hypnotherapy Volume 2, Issue - 11, 1 May 2018 | Page 11

father (mother, child, spouse, best friend) died.” After a loved one
passes on, the individual often has to deal with their belongings
including their home, or now has to take on their responsibilities. Any
of these can become traumatic triggers. If the person or family
member who has lost the loved one does not have time to fully grieve
the loss, and to process unfinished feelings about the person,
depression may set in almost immediately.
Other traumatic triggers include losing a job, divorce, or financial
reversals such as bankruptcy or home foreclosure more
In current world our society is dealing with emotional and mental
harassment which is so subtle, and which has seeped in our society
with the advent of socially correct behavior, and a huge rise in
narcissistic approach is visible. Such People are brilliant in outer
circle and are completely worse with their partners or very close
people. Behavioral issues are more critical and subtle and, specially
confusing since, they do not reach at the border of physical abuse.
So socially nobody understand or believes the victim. Since otherwise
everything is politically correct and perfect as per social norms.
Its symptoms are:
• They talk sweet publicly, personally ignore or sometime even
hurt.
• Shouting/ Criticizing at something very trivial is normal to them.
• They do not respect you.
• They are never available at the hour of need.
• They seems to be perfectly logical and aware being in social
setups but they never seems to understand any logic in a
relationship, as if they live in their own worlds.
• They never take a stand for you.
• They do not just decide for themselves but, they decide for
other person as well.
• They are Passive aggressive
• They never take direct stand or responsibility
• They mirror other person when it comes to confrontation, they
will simply blame you and put similar accusation
• They are incapable of feeling remorse or guilt. Their Sorry’s
are:- (all right now I am in this situation and I need to say sorry