the difference between Love and Oppression all the while thinking they know what ’ s best for the other person . Ones these set of beliefs are corrected or healed changes are drastic . Mostly the one feel oppressed comes for therapy and when S / he is been shown that his / her Freedom was never others ’, to abuse . And how negative beliefs in the disguise of some very positive looking morals are creating wreck . Well ! These are few example of healing ; there , is a whole lot of plethora to understand and even discover , regarding relationship issues . So please do not keep on living in pain thinking its Normal and everyone has to live this way . No , ‘ Normal ’ is a way to damage your relationship . There are few things we can take care of ourselves and for anything out of control , please come to your Therapist .
• Fighting is normal : a very common phrase . No it s not . It feels good because your pent up emotions get a vent and much needed communication happens . However it is a very negative way to communicate , Even though making up session may be anything between romantic to passionate . But , Negative words and insults hurled during that fit of anger has a way to effect self esteem . Then it sets a further damaging pattern . Please do not resort to this way of communication communicate before things turn into angry brawl . And “ Resolve Issues ” no matter how trivial it feels to one party , cause if it hurts other , then its real and ticking .
• Infrequent Sex : Another Normal , many a time we hear even long gaps in sex as normal . Well every individual ’ s Sex drive may be different but here is an important fact . Changes to the frequency of sex in a relationship can often be a measure of the strength of connection in the relationship . While sex is a physical act , it is far more psychological and emotional than many people realize . There are also some