the difference between Love and Oppression all the while thinking they know what’ s best for the other person. Ones these set of beliefs are corrected or healed changes are drastic. Mostly the one feel oppressed comes for therapy and when S / he is been shown that his / her Freedom was never others’, to abuse. And how negative beliefs in the disguise of some very positive looking morals are creating wreck. Well! These are few example of healing; there, is a whole lot of plethora to understand and even discover, regarding relationship issues. So please do not keep on living in pain thinking its Normal and everyone has to live this way. No,‘ Normal’ is a way to damage your relationship. There are few things we can take care of ourselves and for anything out of control, please come to your Therapist.
• Fighting is normal: a very common phrase. No it s not. It feels good because your pent up emotions get a vent and much needed communication happens. However it is a very negative way to communicate, Even though making up session may be anything between romantic to passionate. But, Negative words and insults hurled during that fit of anger has a way to effect self esteem. Then it sets a further damaging pattern. Please do not resort to this way of communication communicate before things turn into angry brawl. And“ Resolve Issues” no matter how trivial it feels to one party, cause if it hurts other, then its real and ticking.
• Infrequent Sex: Another Normal, many a time we hear even long gaps in sex as normal. Well every individual’ s Sex drive may be different but here is an important fact. Changes to the frequency of sex in a relationship can often be a measure of the strength of connection in the relationship. While sex is a physical act, it is far more psychological and emotional than many people realize. There are also some