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Harmony in Marriage
do this. Any quarrels you have, will affect your children’s lives.
Quarrels in the home affect the growing minds of children.
Homes that are free of quarrels will have healthy children with
emotional maturity. Otherwise a lot of problems will ensue for
these children in the future.
Since the spontaneous expression of this Gnan within me
twenty years ago and even twenty years prior to the Gnan,
there has been no quarrelling in my home life. In this world, you
cannot afford to quarrel under any circumstances.
So from now on, think before you do it. Otherwise take
Dada Bhagwan’s name. I too, take Dada Bhagwan’s name
before I do anything. As soon as you take Dada Bhagwan’s
name, your work will get done, as you would like it.
[3] DIFFERENCES OF OPINION BETWEEN
HUSBAND AND WIFE
First and foremost, we need to get rid of anger, pride,
attachment, greed, and reduce conflicts due to differences of
opinions. This is our goal. We have to let the light of knowledge
guide us. How long can you remain in the darkness? Have you
seen the consequences of anger, pride, attachment, greed, and
discord?
Questioner : Yes, many times.
Dadashri : Where, in the courtroom?
Questioner : At home, in the courts, discord exists
everywhere.
Dadashri : What is the situation at home? There are only
three of you at home, how can you have discord? You do not
even have too many children. What possible reason for discord
exists in your home of three people?